Here’s the place for discussions on female libido - how horny are you these days? What gets you going or are you feeling like you’re in a rut? How do you get out of a funk?
I think that 40’s are the sexual prime for women. I’m having more fun than I ever did in my 20’s. I wish I had the self confidence back then that I do now.
I recently turned 40, but my labido has been crazy high the last two years! Even if I have low weeks here & there, I find taking some time to unwind in hot bath & actually pleasuring myself helps me feel better and want more. Sexual energy is great for healing & increasing mood!
So great to hear 40s can be a time of sexual high. Lately I feel due to fatigue, stress and anxiety my libido has been going down. Definitely need to refocus and restore.
I feel like my libido has nothing to do with my age, but it ebbs and flows with what is going on in my life, and how much energy and confidence I have. I typically have a high libido, but during times I have had health, mental health, or new stressful situations come up, I get tired and feel less in the mood. Choosing to take charge of my health, exercising 5 days a week walking/hiking/swimming and eating healthier, are things that really boosted my confidence and sex drive. I have lost about 70 pounds in the last 4 years, and got a whole new wardrobe of old and new clothes. It is not just slimming down, but getting energy up, practicing self-care, and working on loving myself more again that gets me back on track sexually. Feelin’ yourself helps you get into the mood for sure! We have 1 day a week where we have our date day, and I always dress in things that make me feel sexy, do my hair, and put on make up, which is mostly for me. It helps switch off from the week, working from home and wearing gym clothes, and shift into a fun, weekend vibe. Party on!
My girlfriend uses this testosterone cream behind her knees and it shoots her libido through the roof. Has anyone tried this? My girlfriends last night were saying that the O Shot (same as a PRP shot?) makes them a lot more sensitive and easier to orgasm…?
I agree, the more the better.
I go through stages where the more I get, the more I want but if I start to withdraw or go through a dry spell. I’m not interested at all. But I can go from 0-100 in no time LOL!
I’ve always had a high sex drive (maybe I was a boy in a past life). I have out played all my boyfriends! Lol now that I’m in my 40’s it’s even higher! It’s crazy! I think part is due to that there’s no fucks given at this age. I’m up to try anything and just have fun! Plus as we age we gain confidence and know our bodies better and know what makes up happy and not afraid to ask for it!
100%!! Love the approach and attitude - NO FUCKS GIVEN
Definitely confidence and being able to relax and not worry about judgement helps in getting the flow going.
Girlfriend- I am WITH YOU!! I have not found a man who can keep up haha.
I was always horny…2 yrs ago that all changed. I’m in menopause, 53… Im a vegetarian, work out 5 days a week, do dragon boating. I could care less if i ever had sex again.
A friend i have is 58 and all she goes on about is sex. I asked if she had a sex addicting lolol. That’s all she talks about and men and dicks. Gawd I’m so over it.
Welcome to our community and thanks for making your first post. I look forward to hearing more voices here from women 50 and up who have gone through menopause already.